Our children's fear...

Our children

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding (New Internation Version - Proverbs 9:10).

Over a century ago, Bethel’s simple Gospel children’s program was born. 

The genesis of our ministry was biblical instruction each Lord’s Day for the kids of 3 Fisher Street families during the years of WW1.

And consequently, our Sunday School may be the longest-running, consecutively-held children’s program in our city.

But what impact can we measure over that century-plus of children’s ministry?

How do we evaluate as Bethel’s kids programs – AWANA, Bethel Repertory Company, Youth Group and classroom Sunday School – conclude for another year?

One subjective metric is to examine the general spiritual health of our children against their cohort – kids of similar ages and circumstances.

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight (English Standard Version - Proverbs 9:10).

Demographics is the study of data relating to populations.

And in recent decades, demographers have studied, surveyed, and categorized – Canada’s and the world’s peoples – by generation according to shared characteristics and traits.

For example, the oldest citizens of our country and the western world are often referred to as the Silent Generation (those born 1928-45). These resilient folks knew the Great Depression of the 1930s, or the aftermath thereof for those born near the end of that cohort. And they experienced the horrors of WW2 and the loss of many who left to fight and didn’t come home.

Their children were the largest bulge on demographic charts, the generation known as Baby Boomers (born 1946-64). This cohort generally exhibited a strong work ethic, optimism for what was possible, robust social engagement and a never-before-seen desire to impact culture, the economy and the technology of the era.

The broader perspective of Boomers globally was shaped by 2 social engagement issues born – at least in part – in the USA: that of the racial Civil Rights movement and the Vietnam War. 

And this era in industrialized nations witnessed unprecedented economic prosperity, the rapid availability of medical advances, the surge of technology, and the ubiquitous cultural impact of rock and roll music.

And so the progression worked its way – generation by generation – into the 21st century: after the Baby Boomers, Gen X (1965-80), followed by the Millennials (1981-96), Gen Z (1997-2012), and finally Gen Alpha (2013 to present). (Technically, those born after 2025 are being labelled as Gen Beta.)

But here’s the demographic paradox. 

From a macro view, what has been evident in successive population cohorts in the western world is this: globally, even as educational opportunities grow, as prosperity increases, and as scientific progress improves daily life via medical interventions and lifestyle enhancements, each generation experiences progressively more fear and anxiety!

And that progression is relatively consistent – even measurable – with each succeeding generation. 

The micro view of Gen Alpha kids (born 2013 and after) contains the following analysis:

-      they’ve never known a time without smartphones and social media;

-      they’ve lived in an era of falling fertility rates;

-      they bear the imprint of COVID consequences: social distancing and collective isolation;

-      and, these kids are highly digitally literate, but with the accompanying psychological and physical consequences now identified, resulting from excessive screen time. 

According to work done by the Barna Group, today’s teenagers (those aged 13-17 reaching within both Gen Z and Alpha) – what Barna has labelled the Open Generation – are so-called because they are open to seeking truth and authenticity, are open to connections, open to change.

The Barna survey from a few years ago – questioning teens on issue of the Bible and Jesus, justice and self-perception – reached 25,000 teens in 26 countries.

But what was astonishing to me was the results for Canadian kids.

Canadian teenagers have access to standards of education and prosperity that is the envy of much of the world. And the relative peace within the borders of our nation is comparably exceptional.

And yet as a group, the Barna survey demonstrates that our teens experience more anxiety and fear, self-doubt and loneliness – not only greater than prior generations, but also more intensely than the rest of the world!

Why such wide-spread cultural pessimism??

My observation is this: when the healthy fear of God evaporates, is dismissed, and considered irrelevant in a culture, other negative and potentially destructive fears fill the void.

The beginning of wisdom is to fear the Lord, and acknowledging the Holy One is understanding (NET Bible - Proverbs 9:10).

Takeaway: Our response, consistent through the history of Bethel: the Bible represents the wisdom of ages, because it provides the knowledge of our God and Creator, and His Gospel.

And, the Bible encourages, promotes, and demands the fear of the Lord!

It is to our benefit – and the psychological and spiritual health of our children and grandkids – to embrace truth: the eternal insight, and reverential respect and awe for Who He is.

The Scriptures declare that such a worldview is foundation to understanding, to wise perception, and to moral awareness.

The healthy fear of the Lord is not the fear of terror, but a healthy fear for the ONE who is majestic, holy, transcendent, maximally authoritative.

The Triune God of the Bible is the Cosmic Sovereign.

And the fear of this God replaces other anxieties, fears, worries and phobias.

May that commitment to truth always be foundational to Bethel’s work with children and teens – now and until the Lord Jesus returns. 

The fear of the LORD is the foundation of wisdom. Knowledge of the Holy One results in good judgment (New Living Translation - Proverbs 9:10).

 

~ graphic by Microsoft Copilot AI

resources: 

Anxiety Statistics 2025 - Prevalence, Demographics & Treatment Data

Why Has Anxiety Increased Over the Years? - ScienceInsights

The Open Generation - Barna Group

'Kids aren't OK right now': Conservatives join Liberals in asking whether social media should be banned for kids

About Us

There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. - Galatians 3:28 The community at Bethel includes a wide range of ages and backgrounds. Young and old, families and singles, English-speakers and those with a French mother-tongue, various ethnic and religious backgrounds. We reflect the make up of the city of North Bay. More importantly though, we are a group of people who Jesus has saved through his work on the cross. By God's plan of redemption we were all brought into one family as brothers and sisters in Christ, given a mission to reach into our world and make disciples for Him. We hope you will find at Bethel a friendly, loving group of people striving to live for Jesus Christ. Whether you are visiting for the day or trying to find a permanent church home, you are welcome to join us as we together seek out Him.

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